Have a meeting of like Minds!

Chemistry is about more than just looks and the hormones pulsing through our bodies. It's also about the mental connection — the way we fit together emotionally and intellectually with a person.

Some may say that chemistry is even more about the mental than the physical, at least where lasting love is concerned. Whatever your verdict, finding someone whose mind you like should be as much of a priority as their physical characteristics are.

To increase your chances of a meeting of the minds, get involved in activities that stimulate your brain. While couples certainly can complement each other, there's a lot to be said for shared interests in a relationship. Sometimes bookish people look for adventurers, or accountants want to date artists, but exploring an activity that speaks to you and your talents may provide a better chance of finding a person you click with — someone on the same wavelength intellectually, emotionally, or spiritually. Doing what you enjoy, instead of what you think you should be doing, also teaches you to love who you are. In doing so, you're more likely to find like-minded prospects.

Set up a time to babysit for some married friends

Many singles long to have a family, and this is a way to spend time with children. It also is an excellent opportunity to serve your brothers and sisters in Christ. Many parents need one-on-one time to build their marriage relationship, and the only way they get that time is when someone is willing to watch the kids. Believe me, the parents will come home renewed and very grateful for your involvement with their family.