Friday, September 5, 2008

More Reasons to Ponder.......

1. We need someone with whom we can "relieve your tension".
2. Marriage is what society condones as the best way to live.
3. People have ideals of love/marriage.
4. People marry for money or to be more financially comfortable.
5. People marry for stability and protection.
6. People marry to eliminate feelings of loneliness.
7. People can't fathom a life all alone.
8. Society /culture says marriage is a normal rite of passage
into adulthood.
9. Marriage is in ideal, one thing *lasting*.
10.Believe me most know that getting married is easy but staying married is a challenge.

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Why would you think of leaving the Single Scene?

Well, let's just start with some personals reasons that may sway your thought process......

1. Two people have a unique understanding of each other.

2. They love each other.
3. They are sexually attracted (sadly, this is the main
reason these days for several people).
4. They make the same amount of money or close to it.
5. They are of similar intelligence and emotional intelligence.
6. It pays to be married when it comes to paying taxes.
7. They want children and then they want children together.
8. How about you may think you will get plenty of home cooked meals, have the bills paid, your home will be perfectly organized and nicely decorated. Hey someone to do laundry, etc.
9. You don't have to go searching for sexual relief.
10.Life with just your dog or cat is not as fulfilling as you once believed.

These are just some personal reasons I can think of but one that I heard a lot from women admitting today is just to have a man around is the main thing, whether they be in a one-sided relationship or the fact that she may be sharing the person with another prospective woman does not matter much.